Misunderstood
Frag writes:
I met this girl outside the empanada place next to 1223. She was leaving the country in one week, but I pursued it anyway. We had a very intense time together before she left. There were tears. We swore we would make it work and visit each other. But the emails are getting shorter and less frequent. This is the latest one..
The email:
I’m affraid u misunderstood me. I didn’t mean I don’t want u to call me, I said it would be great if u call me, didn’t u read it carefully?
I really want to be in touch with u. And I also hope we’ll see each other one day in the future, our friendship doesn’t have to be over. Yes, it’s true, I’m dating somebody but it doesn’t mean I forgot u. U will always be somewhere in my memory, I spent many great hours with u just in couple of my last hours in
usa though.Not many changes in my life, I live normally, nothing exciting honestly. This sat I start my speech therapy postgraduate studies, finally I will have something to learn
Well, if u want write me something, how u are doing
The translation:
This woman has absolutely no intention of waiting for you forever. She also enjoyed your hot & heavy & short-lived romance, but she has let real life awake her from the dream that you guys could ever make it work over the long distance.
She’s dating someone else, so she’s moved on emotionally and physically.
As far as her encouraging you to call ($$$ phone bills!) and write, she really just wants the attention and the reassurance that, somewhere out there, someone is pining away for her. She will never reciprocate your depth and intensity of emotion, though, despite what she might have said to you in the past. If you want to be her security blanket and ego booster, by all means, please continue to contact her. But if you want to move on and heal, please cease communications. The sooner you do, the sooner you will be over her. Every email and phone call resets that healing clock, you know. Don’t go backwards. I’m sorry.
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