First Date DC

Clawson says,

I went to frontpage last weekend with some friends and sort of became a rolling blackout. I remember bits and pieces but not details or faces, more like snippets of conversation.

I met a couple girls and we talked and had some drinks and my friend and I started to go back to their place but they live in a place with lots of security and I have to sign in to get in and it’s a hassle (I know because I used to live there - the UCDC center). So instead I get a cab and drag my buddy away and leave. The next afternoon I get a text that says “who are you.” I don’t know who “jenn” is so I text back “hi, who are you?” Nothing happens.

But last night was looking in my phone book and saw “jenn” for some reason I assumed it was a girl that I had met at frontpage that night so I texted her “do you remember meeting me last weekend, I don’t think you do.”

She calls me back at 2 AM that night and I didn’t pick up. I was roused from a heavy slumber. She leaves a message, “call me back.”

I texted her back “sorry I’m too tired to talk I’m sleeping, talk to you tomorrow”

She called me back again and I didn’t pick up because I knew she was out and drunk at this hour and I was not in that mode. Her message said, “That’s okay, we’re cool” or something to that effect.

I text her and tell her I would be incoherent because i’m so tired.

she texts me, “you hate us.”

I text her, “lies.”

I passed out and woke up with a text that says, “bullshit.”

So I don’t know if you can make any sense of this. My current plan is to give
“jenn” a call this weekend and meet up sometime at some bar.

Basically, is this notch potential?

DCB says,

I like your game. Here is a girl who is trying to get in touch with you and you say you are tired. It says all the right things without having to actually say much at all.

Not only does this girl remember you, but she is very interested in banging you. But judging from her text message games, you are going to have to go about it in an indirect, spontaneous way, as opposed to the more normal ‘call, plan, and have drinks’ dating system. Your idea of meeting her out is good, but you need to start thinking of logistics. How are you going to isolate her? How are you going to deal with the inevitable cockblock? Do you have a way of getting her back to your place? At this point in the game, it becomes mostly about logistics and little about macking, for she has already made up her mind on having sex with you.

Personally, I think text message is something fun you do to a girl you already banged, not one you are trying to bang. It takes too long to make things work and gives her a very easy out when you try to take it to the next level.

Kathryn says,

I think there is hook-up potential as well. (I refuse, however, to assume the lady would give you the notch on the first try, as should you.) A lady interested in keeping “hand” and/or her dignity usually responds to you in kind: you text, she texts; you call, she calls. Instead, Jenn is calling after you text, meaning she is willing to put in more effort than you are. She’s also calling you late at night when she’s drunk, another sign you’re on her mind for something less formal than a dinner date. You can definitely call her for the meet-out this weekend, and I guarantee she’ll do everything she can to show up, probably drunk. DCB has already outlined what steps to take from there.

Side note to Jenn: Sweetie, please write us. Your game is awful. We can help.

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