NYE party
Anon writes:
I met this guy at a NYE’s party. He got my number and called 15 minutes after leaving the party to say that he hoped we could get together later in the week. We went out that Thursday night. Date was great. We even made plans to get together that Saturday night. Saturday afternoon comes and he calls to cancel because he’s sick. I do know that he had been battling a cold all week.
He calls that Wednesday to say that his next two weeks are super crazy with school, family coming into town, and leaving for a week for a business trip. However, we are able to set up a time to get one drink on Friday night before his family comes into town for his neice’s birthday party. This time I still enjoyed talking to him but he was very distracted.
We’ve emailed some and texted some and he called me from the airport before coming back from his business trip. However, he hasn’t made plans for us to see each other again.
On Tuesday I got this text: Didn’t forget about you. Going on yet another road trip tomorrow. Will catch up soon.
I didn’t respond.
The email:
hey, did you get my text message the other day? how is everything going? Over here it has been soo freaking crazy it is unbeleivable. Running here and running there without any breaks. On the nice side of things, when I head out to Co next week, I get 2 free days to use which is awesome. Well hope all
else is going well and will talk to you soon. Dont be a stranger
After the email:
I saw he was online and we IMed for a bit. I told him I hoped we could catch up soon. He tells me that he also hopes so, but he doesn’t know when it will be as he’s pretty booked up with school and going out to CO.
So, what is going on here? Is he into me or what? And what’s my next move? Wait for him to call or respond to his email?
The translation:
It is obvious that sex occured on your date, because his behavior is the “male post-sex phase out” move. This is when you have sex with a girl that you don’t want to hurt, but don’t really want to see again, so you phase it out with lame excuses and distant moves. You want to keep her on the side for when you get desperate or particularly horny. Bottom line: He doesn’t consider you as girlfriend material. Maybe on your date you ordered the most expensive items in the menu, or you blurted out inappropriate feelings after sex.
But you may be able to weasel another date out of him. Here’s what you can do…
Never contact him again and let him chase you down. Pick up the phone once every two or three times he calls. Reply to text messages every other time with very short answers. Don’t bother replying to emails. Play the game, and play it hard. If he’s the type of guy that is susceptible to this game, and I’m betting he is because he is using it, he’ll ask you out again.
If you liked this post then I think you will like my Roosh's Game Tips Email Newsletter For Guys. It's completely free and your first newsletter will be about how to meet girls in coffee shops. Following that will be newsletters on getting phone numbers, dealing with flakes, teasing girls the right way, handling cockblockers, meeting girls in foreign countries, and a whole lot more. Your email address will always remain private and you can unsubscribe at any time. To sign up put your first name and email address below and click the button.
