Player
Anonymous writes,
I’ve been asked a lot by girls if I’m a player…sometimes this happens early on, sometime when I’m about to seal the deal. What’s the best way to handle this?
DCB says,
Girls usually ask this for two reasons:
1. She is insecure that you are going to have sex with her and never call.
2. You are being a little cheesy and using “lines”.Or a combination of the two. The only answer I advise against is one where you try to be funny, “Yeah I’m a player… of sports!!” Instead I would stick with “Why do you say that?” or “Nah I just like girls.” She just wants assurance that you are the real deal. This is a test you definitely want to pass if you want to bang it out later.
Kathryn says,
Are you a player? I’m guessing, if you regularly employ phrases like “seal the deal,” that you are.
If you and these women have mutual friends, they may have heard you are a player from other people (women talk you know) and are struggling to reconcile whatever feelings they’re having with stories they know about you, or conquests they’ve met or seen from afar. For some reason, most women think that they are going to be the one to rehabilitate a player, no matter what kinds of dire warnings they may have received from friends and acquaintances. Everyone seems to prefer learning lessons the hard way. That said, I think you can either:
1. Tell her everything you think she wants to hear, as DCB is pretty much suggesting, and hope for the best. I, of course, think this is horrific if the end-goal is to pump & dump, but hey, I’m female.
2. If you genuinely like the woman, ask her, in a sincere and mildly hurt manner, what’s “really” going on. Then shut up. She might talk about any rumors, insecurities, or jealousies she’s having… or she might be touched that you’d care enough to ask, and brush the question aside.
Good luck.
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