Relationship guy
stranger in a strange land says,
What I want: To have great freaky and not freaky sex with lots of different hot chicks.
What I get: Lots of great chicks who want to date me, have relationships with me, talk, etc. Which makes me feel bad because I’m a nice guy at heart and hate to tell them that I don’t like them in that way and I’m not looking for a relationship.
So how do I get more of what I want and less of what I get?
about me: Early 30’s in great shape, slightly above average looks, smart, retired, average sized hands.
Kathryn says,
First, I love that you mentioned your hand size! Good to know.
Now, on to the question. If you are not at all looking for a relationship, why are you meeting women and taking them out on dates with only sex in mind? You haven’t provided any details on how you start these…acquaintances. You’re obviously giving “great chicks” the impression that you are open to a relationship, otherwise they wouldn’t pursue one with you.
If you really only want to have sex, I say put the most blatantly obvious “I am looking for hot sex and hot sex only” profiles on MySpace, Friendster, Yahoo, AOL, Craig’s List, FaceBook, City Paper, and anywhere else you can find. Seek out hot women looking for the same thing. Bang away. Use condoms. Leave the dating out of it, especially if you don’t want to talk.
Then, when you’ve had your fill (and been tested to make sure you have no STDs), try dating. I just hope there are still some great chicks left when you do.
DCB says,
Okay I know exactly what your problem is: you’re too nice. Deep down inside I am a nice guy, but I have locked him up in a cage and let the jerk freely control my interactions with women. This results in girls who usually don’t consider me as a boyfriend, so they bang away without worrying about appearing too easy. A girl liking you too much can hurt because, as you have learned, girls like to withhold sex from guys they think could be a boyfriend. So don’t be that guy!
Do just enough to get the notch, and no more, else she may consider you a boyfriend. This really is advanced game because you need to be aware enough of what it takes to get her in bed, and in bed only. Some tips:
1. Do not flash money. Do not say you own your own car or house. Say you have roommates.
2. Don’t take her to expensive places. (Tough for me since I tend to like nice lounges.)
3. Don’t tell her how you want to settle down. Drop things like, “I wonder when I will get tired of going out with friends.”
4. When she asks you what your longest relationship was, say something like “six months.”What happens is you become the guy that girls call in between boyfriends to bang, instead of being the actual boyfriend. If you don’t want a relationship, this is absolutely perfect.
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