Comments on: Ball’s in her court http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/balls-in-her-court "but seriously, when should i call?" Wed, 08 Sep 2010 16:54:45 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.3 By: Another Anon http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/balls-in-her-court#comment-250 Another Anon Fri, 17 Feb 2006 14:42:52 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/balls-in-her-court#comment-250 Whether Kathryn or DCB is correct about the means, they are both right about the ends. The way this girl treated you was mostly strange and either diliberately or indiliberately disrespectful. The bottom line is that even if this girl is still interested in you (I don't think she is) you need to think with your big head instead of your little one and not be interested in her. Girls who play games like this are never ever worth your effort. On top of that- even if this girl wasn't playing games and she is just a headcase who acts bizarrely and gives you a tremendous headache-- well, my question is how can you find this attractive and want to continue to builda more serious relationship with her. Leave now. You got the notch, had some kicks. Now move on and find someone else. Whether Kathryn or DCB is correct about the means, they are both right about the ends. The way this girl treated you was mostly strange and either diliberately or indiliberately disrespectful.

The bottom line is that even if this girl is still interested in you (I don’t think she is) you need to think with your big head instead of your little one and not be interested in her. Girls who play games like this are never ever worth your effort. On top of that- even if this girl wasn’t playing games and she is just a headcase who acts bizarrely and gives you a tremendous headache– well, my question is how can you find this attractive and want to continue to builda more serious relationship with her.

Leave now. You got the notch, had some kicks. Now move on and find someone else.

]]> By: Ibid http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/balls-in-her-court#comment-251 Ibid Fri, 17 Feb 2006 14:49:50 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/balls-in-her-court#comment-251 Walk away clean, man. Walk away clean. She's either seen too many wacky sitcoms and thinks that the way the world works by elaborate schemes or she's bat shit crazy. Walk away clean, man. Walk away clean.
She’s either seen too many wacky sitcoms and thinks that the way the world works by elaborate schemes or she’s bat shit crazy.

]]> By: holiday http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/balls-in-her-court#comment-252 holiday Fri, 17 Feb 2006 15:32:12 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/balls-in-her-court#comment-252 You should just walk away. When I tell a guy that my life is "complicated" or "I've got a lot going on right now", it is my way of saying I can't deal with this right now, it's not a priority or basically I'm not that into you. You should just walk away. When I tell a guy that my life is “complicated” or “I’ve got a lot going on right now”, it is my way of saying I can’t deal with this right now, it’s not a priority or basically I’m not that into you.

]]> By: Heather http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/balls-in-her-court#comment-253 Heather Fri, 17 Feb 2006 15:39:05 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/balls-in-her-court#comment-253 I have to agree with DCB. She set you up for dumping. The thing with her friend and the fact she hasn't called you back is a dead give away that she's done with you. You should just move on. Don't call her again. You don't want to be with a girl who plays games like that anyway. I have to agree with DCB. She set you up for dumping. The thing with her friend and the fact she hasn’t called you back is a dead give away that she’s done with you. You should just move on. Don’t call her again. You don’t want to be with a girl who plays games like that anyway.

]]> By: nabeel http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/balls-in-her-court#comment-254 nabeel Fri, 17 Feb 2006 15:55:24 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/balls-in-her-court#comment-254 my question is... why do they do this? if a girl is done with a guy, why doesn't she just say "listen guy, it's not going to work out between us. sorry, but that's how I feel and there's nothing that can change it" instead of toying with the guy like above? my question is… why do they do this? if a girl is done with a guy, why doesn’t she just say “listen guy, it’s not going to work out between us. sorry, but that’s how I feel and there’s nothing that can change it” instead of toying with the guy like above?

]]> By: Chaco http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/balls-in-her-court#comment-255 Chaco Fri, 17 Feb 2006 16:27:37 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/balls-in-her-court#comment-255 This is interesting. She called you the night before the party and invited you over? For sex I presume? But then told you she wasn't going to hang with you at the party? Sounds to me like she only saw you as a friend-plus-benefits or as a friend/occasional booty call. If that is the case, I think they won't-have-time-to-hang-out deal meant she was telling you that she didn't want you to show up at the party, because she wanted you to be a friend and secret booty call. When you went to the party and maybe *implied* you were her boyfriend, she got upset because she does not see you that way, and now she doesn't want to see you at all if you will make this into something serious. If you had kept things on the casual sex level, I think you might have gotten to keep banging her on occasion. Damn, good booty calls are hard tofind. But don't feel bad, she wasn't very direct and any of us could have misread that one too. This is interesting. She called you the night before the party and invited you over? For sex I presume? But then told you she wasn’t going to hang with you at the party? Sounds to me like she only saw you as a friend-plus-benefits or as a friend/occasional booty call. If that is the case, I think they won’t-have-time-to-hang-out deal meant she was telling you that she didn’t want you to show up at the party, because she wanted you to be a friend and secret booty call.

When you went to the party and maybe *implied* you were her boyfriend, she got upset because she does not see you that way, and now she doesn’t want to see you at all if you will make this into something serious. If you had kept things on the casual sex level, I think you might have gotten to keep banging her on occasion. Damn, good booty calls are hard tofind. But don’t feel bad, she wasn’t very direct and any of us could have misread that one too.

]]> By: Stephen http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/balls-in-her-court#comment-256 Stephen Fri, 17 Feb 2006 17:24:33 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/balls-in-her-court#comment-256 Quit it. If a woman acts like that, its obvious she's not interested that much in you. Why would you want her then? Arm Candy? Why grovel and be less of a man? Quit it.

If a woman acts like that, its obvious she’s not interested that much in you. Why would you want her then? Arm Candy? Why grovel and be less of a man?

]]> By: rock creek rambler http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/balls-in-her-court#comment-257 rock creek rambler Fri, 17 Feb 2006 19:34:58 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/balls-in-her-court#comment-257 I think Ibid nailed it with "bat shit crazy." Be thankful you got out easily and unscathed. I think Ibid nailed it with “bat shit crazy.” Be thankful you got out easily and unscathed.

]]> By: Jenn http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/balls-in-her-court#comment-260 Jenn Fri, 17 Feb 2006 21:17:32 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/balls-in-her-court#comment-260 I think she felt smothered at the party, did you go over the night before, you shouldn't have and maybe the party would've played out differently. I think she felt you were too into her, she will call you soon, girls always come back! She is probably young, 22-26 range and looking for an asshole right now, she will learn. I think she felt smothered at the party, did you go over the night before, you shouldn’t have and maybe the party would’ve played out differently. I think she felt you were too into her, she will call you soon, girls always come back! She is probably young, 22-26 range and looking for an asshole right now, she will learn.

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