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Sean says,
This is a question of fishing or cutting bait….Ok, so I really upset this chick the other day. Nothing new, but I actually like this one. What did I do? I called her another name during “the act”. Yeah, that’s a no-no but I have a good reason I think….Over the last two years I’ve been with chicks named Cathrine, Katie, Kristen, Christine, and this girl’s name is Christa! I called her Katie. Should I attempt to explain myself? Do I have a legitimate case? Any advice on how to explain this would be appreciated. Maybe I should just find a girl named Laura.
Kathryn says,
I’d have a lot more sympathy for you if you called her something much closer to her name. Christa vs. Christine, okay. Christa vs. Katie… not buying it. I don’t care how similar the names are; when you have trouble keeping them straight, it implies you are banging too many women and/or don’t care very much about the women you bang. In short, you are sending the message you consider them interchangeable.
I am curious about one thing - why do you want to explain yourself and try to get back in her good graces? Just so you can have sex with her again? I hope you’d cut bait if that’s the case.
If you care about her and want to soothe her sure-to-be-hurt feelings, I’d just tell her the truth in a very kind way. Explain how similar your exes’ names are. Tell her you were *not* imagining an ex while you were with her, and that you are truly into her. If this never, ever happens again (can you be sure it won’t?), you can eventually win back her trust. If that sounds like too much effort compared to the feelings you have for her, again, I’d say cut bait.
DCB says,
You are an idiot. This is why you NEVER say a girls name during sex. It’s simply too much risk without any benefit. Unless you are a hypnotist who can anchor the saying of her name to an instantaneous orgasm, you are begging for an accident like this.
I think things can be fixed. Try making up a pathetic story about how there is an ex-girlfriend you are having trouble getting over. Tell her that it’s been two years and you finally cut her off from your life, but there must be a small part of you that still needs to exorcise her. Add that you feel horrible because you enjoy spending time with her and that she makes you forget about your imaginary past. In other words, blame your subconscious! Make sure you mention that you read something about this in Freud?s The Interpretation Of Dreams.
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