Comments on: Valentines http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines "but seriously, when should i call?" Wed, 08 Sep 2010 16:55:42 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.3 By: Anonymous http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines#comment-211 Anonymous Tue, 14 Feb 2006 14:12:23 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines#comment-211 Good call, Kathryn. Single roses are pretty lame and thoughtless. And since when do women have sex for any "rewards" other than increased intimacy and/or sexual gratification? DCB- as amusing as you can be sometimes, I feel so bad for you. You're love-starved. Good call, Kathryn. Single roses are pretty lame and thoughtless. And since when do women have sex for any “rewards” other than increased intimacy and/or sexual gratification? DCB- as amusing as you can be sometimes, I feel so bad for you. You’re love-starved.

]]> By: anonymous http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines#comment-212 anonymous Tue, 14 Feb 2006 14:44:16 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines#comment-212 valentines day is for suckers. buy some stock in Hallmark and get her a card. everyone wins! valentines day is for suckers. buy some stock in Hallmark and get her a card.
everyone wins!

]]> By: Ibid http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines#comment-213 Ibid Tue, 14 Feb 2006 15:03:41 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines#comment-213 Hop online and look up origami flowers. Make your own. It shows you put forth more effort than just stopping at a store and signing your name but doesn't imply you spent a lot of money to impress her. Hop online and look up origami flowers. Make your own. It shows you put forth more effort than just stopping at a store and signing your name but doesn’t imply you spent a lot of money to impress her.

]]> By: Chaco http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines#comment-214 Chaco Tue, 14 Feb 2006 18:06:00 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines#comment-214 If you get her a flower that is not a rose, the girl will complain "I can't believe he was too cheap to get me a rose!" If you get her a flower that is not a rose, the girl will complain “I can’t believe he was too cheap to get me a rose!”

]]> By: V http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines#comment-215 V Tue, 14 Feb 2006 18:24:12 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines#comment-215 Flowers are sweet, if she's that kind of a girl (and there are many who would be a little weirded out with flowers after date three on V-day, I think). But maybe just a nice bottle of champagne/red wine and/or some dessert you can split would seem less "Friends call me Nova." Flowers are sweet, if she’s that kind of a girl (and there are many who would be a little weirded out with flowers after date three on V-day, I think). But maybe just a nice bottle of champagne/red wine and/or some dessert you can split would seem less “Friends call me Nova.”

]]> By: Kathryn http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines#comment-216 Kathryn Tue, 14 Feb 2006 19:00:56 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines#comment-216 V, you are the shit. American Pie references? STFU. "...as in, CASAnova..." V, you are the shit. American Pie references? STFU.

“…as in, CASAnova…”

]]> By: Muffin http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines#comment-217 Muffin Tue, 14 Feb 2006 19:02:08 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines#comment-217 Don't get her anything. V-day gifts are for suckas and boyfriends. Make her buy you a drink. Don’t get her anything. V-day gifts are for suckas and boyfriends. Make her buy you a drink.

]]> By: Sam http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines#comment-218 Sam Tue, 14 Feb 2006 19:04:05 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines#comment-218 Depends on how much she likes you... and whether or not she over analyzes. If so, a good call is a yellow and red rose, which means friendship with the possibility of love... if nothing else, it will get you into her pants quicker. Or a box of chocolates. Agree with Chaco, don't get creative on the flower choosing just yet... will make you look like you didn't plan or are cheap. Depends on how much she likes you… and whether or not she over analyzes. If so, a good call is a yellow and red rose, which means friendship with the possibility of love… if nothing else, it will get you into her pants quicker. Or a box of chocolates. Agree with Chaco, don’t get creative on the flower choosing just yet… will make you look like you didn’t plan or are cheap.

]]> By: Stephen http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines#comment-219 Stephen Tue, 14 Feb 2006 19:04:22 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines#comment-219 Get her nothing. Then she'll think you're an asshole. Then take her somewhere decent, nice. Then you become the asshole with a smidge of class. You might get the notch. I mean, what else can I say? You don't know if you're into her or not, so the only reason why you're taking her out for V-Day is that you're hoping to get into her pants. I'm just prescibing the medicine for your problem. Personally, if you don't know if you want to be with her for awhile or just be casual, then you shouldn't be taking her out. Get her nothing.

Then she’ll think you’re an asshole. Then take her somewhere decent, nice. Then you become the asshole with a smidge of class. You might get the notch.

I mean, what else can I say? You don’t know if you’re into her or not, so the only reason why you’re taking her out for V-Day is that you’re hoping to get into her pants. I’m just prescibing the medicine for your problem.

Personally, if you don’t know if you want to be with her for awhile or just be casual, then you shouldn’t be taking her out.

]]> By: Jenna http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines#comment-220 Jenna Tue, 14 Feb 2006 20:36:36 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines#comment-220 Don't reward her for not having sex yet? Do you want to date a loose girl? By putting in some effort I bet you would get some sex. Which chance do you want to take: pissed off because of no gift, therefore no sex, or small gift and resulting sex? Don’t reward her for not having sex yet? Do you want to date a loose girl?

By putting in some effort I bet you would get some sex. Which chance do you want to take: pissed off because of no gift, therefore no sex, or small gift and resulting sex?

]]> By: Stephen http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines#comment-221 Stephen Tue, 14 Feb 2006 20:50:08 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines#comment-221 Its contrarian advice, but its what he wants to have happen. He just wants sex. Besides, I dont think you read what I said. Isn't taking her out to a nice restaurant a gift? Again, I don't agree with him, and think he's just out for sex and therefore shouldn't be going out on a romantic holiday (because that indicates a willingness to be in a relationship). Its contrarian advice, but its what he wants to have happen. He just wants sex.

Besides, I dont think you read what I said. Isn’t taking her out to a nice restaurant a gift?

Again, I don’t agree with him, and think he’s just out for sex and therefore shouldn’t be going out on a romantic holiday (because that indicates a willingness to be in a relationship).

]]> By: Ibid http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines#comment-222 Ibid Tue, 14 Feb 2006 21:23:23 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/02/valentines#comment-222 Three dates and no sex? If he were just in it for some tail he'd have moved on. Particularly tonight. The bars will be full of single, miserable girls drinking too much and willing to do something stupid just to have someone on Valentine's Day. Three dates and no sex? If he were just in it for some tail he’d have moved on. Particularly tonight. The bars will be full of single, miserable girls drinking too much and willing to do something stupid just to have someone on Valentine’s Day.

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