Beer goggles
First Time Asker says,
Ok, so I want to a party over the weekend, drank a little, and met a girl. We talked for a while, and it was generally a good time. Oh, when I said I drank a little, I probably mean I drank a lot. This girl was engaging, friendly, and attractive. I think. See, I’m stuck in one of those awkward situations where I don’t remember exactly how attractive she was, and, more importantly, if I want to risk calling her (I got her number) and going out with her. What if the beer goggle were stronger than I originally thought? Should I risk it, or just forget about it?
Kathryn says,
Although I have a sneaking suspicion you’re kind of a jackass, I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt here.
If you think this girl may be attractive and interesting enough to talk to for a while, and you keep thinking about her, I’d risk it, but hedge your bets. Why not meet for a drink after work one night? If she is attractive and interesting, you could ask her to join you for dinner as well, or you could make more solid plans for another night.
Of course, if she had wicked beer goggles when she gave you her number, this may all be for naught. Good luck!
DCB says,
You have no excuse not to call her. Worst case is you show up and she is ugly. BIG DEAL. She showed up because she wants the sex. All that you have to do is re-create the night you met her by getting hammered. Take her to a cheap bar and just keep drinking until you can look her in the face for more than three seconds. Then take her home, seal the deal, and then wash off your shame with a shower of scalding hot water. After that, call your buddies and tell them a story that they will use against you for years. It’s win/win? a notch AND entertainment.
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