American Guy vs. European Man
Not Always Such a Tramp writes,
This question involves two guys. Let’s call them American Guy and European Man.
Over the last several years I have had the great fortune of spending a lot of time in one particular European country. Three years ago, I met American Guy there. We quickly became friends and then one drunken night, we slept together. The next day we agreed that it was not going to happen again (though I was not at all opposed to the idea) and it never did.
The following summer, I returned to same European country and happened again to spend a good deal of time with American Guy, who had returned for the same reason, which I am intentionally obscuring. We didn’t sleep together but we solidified a pretty great friendship.
When the opportunity came about for me to return to European country for a whole year, I jumped at it. No, American Guy wasn’t going to be there… but it was something I’d dreamed about doing for a long time. So I hopped on a plane last fall and am still here. Part way through the year, I heard from American Guy via email after a relative hiatus. He gave me European Man’s email address and suggested that he and I should hang out. American Guy and European Man are best friends, at least cross-Atlantic-ally speaking, and have been for about 10 years.
So eventually European Man and I started hanging out and our relationship has evolved into a sexual one, though we are not necessarily a “couple.” The issue is this: American Guy is going to be here in June and may well stay with European Man. Do I say anything to either one of them (mostly I am concerned that European Man ought to know)? What is the likelihood that European Man will say anything to American Guy or vice versa?
I know this is kind of a typical situation. But, come on, I am in another country and didn’t “expect” this to happen. (Haha, hint of sarcasm…!)
Kathryn says,
If I had to put money on whether or not European Man and American Guy already know about your sexual relationships/encounters with each other, I’d go with HELL YES. They’ve been best friends for 10 years, he put you two in touch…it all adds up to everyone knows, and everyone’s behaving like grown-ups about it. I wouldn’t say anything.
But I do have a question for you. What if it turns out this was all a set-up for a threesome? Are you down?
DCB says,
Yeah what Kathryn said. Not only do they know about it, they have been comparing notes on your bedroom performance. American guy is a little annoyed that he is missing out on the sex. He will push to sex you again, creating a rift in the friendship that results in a spectacular fistfight between two grown men you have banged. You will love it and email all your friends.
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