Comments on: Killing sorority girl stereotypes

By: Jada

Jada — Wed, 17 May 2006 14:04:35 +0000

Yos seem to have your own soap opera going on.I know you’re disappointed however just Let it Go. You are giving other people too much power. This seems to have dragged on long enough don’t you think?

By: V

Wed, 17 May 2006 14:22:14 +0000

You obviously haven’t moved on unless you thrive on drama. I understand that she’s your sis, but you need to emotionally check out of the relationship. If you still have to be on a her topless pillow fight team (or whatever) then fine, but don’t put yourself through more pain and unnecessary emotional investment by some tearful confrontation that means nothing because I�m sure she�ll sleep with your ex again and you shouldn�t care.

By: steven

steven — Wed, 17 May 2006 14:47:54 +0000

End the drama. Move on.

By: phi sig

phi sig — Wed, 17 May 2006 15:24:23 +0000

Hey! No hating on sorority girls. That was the best grammar/syntax/spelling/sentence structure I have ever seen on this site!

You need to take a new little. The current one is a giant slut-bag whore.

By: Pinkyhater

Pinkyhater — Wed, 17 May 2006 15:45:33 +0000

This “Denise” girl reminds me of Pinky from another post. Sorority sis or not, she is no friend. You are correct when you said that your guy was up for grabs, but she basically lied to you and friends don’t do that shit. A letter sounds like a good idea. Keep it short and sweet, and basically say that even though you had broken up with “Ritchie”, that a true friend would have still taken a hands-off policy… or at the very least would have been honest with you regarding her intentions. Tell her that you do not need friends like this and leave it at that.

Oh, and like DCB said… sororities and frats are LAME.

By: rock creek rambler

rock creek rambler — Wed, 17 May 2006 16:49:22 +0000

I say get even with her by learning how to write more succinctly.

By: Chaco

Chaco — Wed, 17 May 2006 16:49:30 +0000

What bars in DC do your sorority sisters hang out in? I have some friends who would like to pump and dump them.

By: Matt

Matt — Wed, 17 May 2006 19:34:32 +0000

Denise played you from the beginning, she had her mind set on Ritchie even before you guys broke up, hence the friendly encouragement to do so. Getting even now is a risky proposition, given the fact that she has made you look so bad, a failed attempt at revenge could ruin you. You have 2 choices, completely forget about everything that happened, treat her as a friend only so much as you have to given she is your sister, eventually it will blow over. Or - Sleep with Ritchie and tape it, then play it in front of her and other friends.

By: Annon

Annon — Wed, 17 May 2006 21:33:20 +0000

Ignore her and act super fake sweet, in your best sorority girl fashion, if you have to spend time with her. Oh, also talk just enough causal shit about her behind her back so that all your fellow sisters hate her too, but not so much that you sound desperate. But be sure to causally mention when she flirts, even in a friendly way, with other girl’s boyfriends. I hope by now you have learned how to fight back in a classy, bitchy sorority girl style. Think mean girls. And act like you are the happiest girl in the world to be dating this new guy. You may act innocent but your love of drama shows you have true catty bitch potential. Embrace it and you will definitely be able to get your revenge on Denise.

She may have told your boyfriend that she “feels bad” but she doesn’t. She is just saying that to him so he doesn’t realize what a bitch she is. She will never apologize so you should never seek to confront her directly about this.

Also, stay clear of your boyfriend. He is obviously hooking up with this girl to get back at you cause he is hurting over the break up and may not be as nice as you say he is. If that is the case, don’t worry about him, I am sure she will treat him badly too.

By: nabeel

nabeel — Wed, 17 May 2006 21:54:21 +0000

my gosh… girls can be so mean to each other…

By: Jane A

Jane A — Thu, 18 May 2006 00:56:45 +0000

I agree with Annon, spend as little time with Denise as possible but when you are forced to talk to her - do it in the fakest sweet way possible. In your mind you bitch about how clueless she is that you really hate her guts. Its a power thing and works, meanwhile - make sure that the sisters you do trust know how betrayed you feel so that they can back up when you need it.

Most importantly, let the rest of it go. You can do it, release the anger so that you feel lighter. Hold on to the anger and the bitterness and it will eat you up and your new boyfriend will disappear.

By: Ibid

Ibid — Thu, 18 May 2006 12:50:24 +0000

There’s no need for all this nastiness.
So Denise is a bad friend. Now you know. Don’t be friends with her. Don’t hang out with her. Don’t talk with her. Don’t explain why you no longer talk with her. Don’t pour your heart out to her and if she starts telling you what another Miss So-and-so told her just tell her “That was a private conversation. I don’t want to hear what she told you.” and walk away.
Your ex is called “your ex” because you are no longer dating him. He is free to date anyone he likes and anyone, even your friends, are free to date him. You broke up with him so it’s not like he’s the bad guy who broke your heart. If anyone gets shunned it would be his friends refusing to date you.
Here’s the tricky part. Be sure that the rest of your friends know what kind of person Denise is. The hard part is to do that without looking like a hateful gossip yourself.

By: Franz

Franz — Fri, 26 May 2006 08:01:17 +0000

Yes, not a bad post for a sorority girl; too long, but no glaring errors and no excessive use of the word ‘like’. Bang up job, bang up job.

DCB is right. Retreat. Or just go put on those tight black pants and a tube top and get out there. It’s generally a bad idea to form an alliance with a bunch of those bitchy sorority girl types, unfortunately that’s joining. Being in this silly club where you call each other ’sister’ just means that there are more bitchy people to snark about the fact that you’ve been owned.

Drop the sorostitute gig; until you do, you will continue to meet loser guys and they will treat you like the joke that all men know sorority girls to be.