Manscaping
Curious writes,
Like DCB, I’m a male a little on the hairier-side of the spectrum (chest, some back, etc.). It’s nothing that I’m too insecure about, and I don’t believe in laser hair removal or waxing. My question is how to best disclose my body hair to potential sex partners/love interests. Am I better off just letting her discover it herself, or is some warning the better approach?
Thanks.
DCB says,
Welcome to the site, my hairy brother! You make it sound like your hair is a dirty secret, when it fact it opens the door to women who like that sort of thing.
If you have as much hair on your arms as I do, then rest assured that girls already know of your gorilla status. I used to trim my body hair when I was younger, but I have put the trimmer down and accepted my glorious destiny. (Tip: Trim your pubic hairs to make your size appear bigger.)
By the time a girl sees you naked and wonders if you are a close relative to the ape family, she has already decided to have sex with you. Being a hairy, ape man, I get a kick out of having sex with a virginal, pale-white, hairless woman. You think these white girl’s fathers expected their daughter to have sex with a man-beast? It’s like King Kong sleeping with that white woman. Only a hairy man can experience this sort of powerful fantasy.
Kathryn says,
For the record, it doesn’t sound like you’re THAT hairy. But DCB is right. If you are in bed with a woman, she probably is okay with your body hair, or okay enough with the rest of you that she’ll overlook it.
And, in the grand tradition of relationships, if you start dating a woman who’s not entirely okay with the body hair, she will slowly but surely introduce you to the kind of manscaping she prefers. Go with that.
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