Comments on: Super slump

By: Ibid

Ibid — Tue, 20 Jun 2006 13:44:07 +0000

> There is absolutely no reason to go to a club with guys who have no game.
Yeah, friends are for chumps. Who wants to hang out with a bunch of people whose company you enjoy.

It might help if you told us what the new city is. Moving from Washington, DC to Nome, Alaska would explain all your lady problems in a breath. Moving almost anywhere from DC means a much slimmer selection of women.

By: Sweet

Sweet — Tue, 20 Jun 2006 14:17:14 +0000

I’m curious to hear what city you live in now. If that has anything to do with it?

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 20 Jun 2006 15:00:22 +0000

He described the problem pretty well - he has no balls. He admits to thinking that he is relatively good looking. MF, you aren’t Brad Pitt, and even then you have got to have some game. He’s expecting women to come to him and not do any fucking work - he sits in a corner and looks at girls instead of having some balls to actually -gasp- talk to one or two or all of them. Your lack of confidence is Reason #1 - 1000 why you aren’t having any success.

Dude, you are exactly the kind of DUD that makes going out annoying. Grow a fucking pair. If you have the looks to back it up, why worry? Dummy… read DCB’s Tight Game Week posts. That was actually good stuff.

By: toomuchcoffeelady

toomuchcoffeelady — Tue, 20 Jun 2006 15:07:51 +0000

Second everything Anonymous said. I seriously can’t BELIEVE that OP is expecting women to approach him. Do you also expect them to take you out, propose to you, then work to support you while you stay home with the kids? Get over yourself please.

By: Chaco

Chaco — Tue, 20 Jun 2006 15:47:29 +0000

I feel ya bro, I was there once a few years ago…no game, no friends with game, and no hope in sight. You gotta get some game. I agree with everything DCB said but I will supplement with a few additional ideas.

1. Get a book called “10 Secrets for Success with Beautiful Women” by Ursula Lindstrom. There are many books out there, but for under $15, this covers all the basics.

2. Learn to chat up women in more places than just clubs. Coffee shops in your town? Strike up a convo with the girl at the next table. Bookstores? Strike up a convo about a book you enjoyed.

3. Take salsa or swing dance lessons. This is a great way to meet people, I met my current girlfriend salsa dancing, she met her boyfriend before me swing dancing. Girls love a man who can dance.

4. Get a female friend to give you an HONEST evaluation of your clothes and upgrade your style accordingly. Women really care how a man dresses.

Good luck!

By: The BLS

The BLS — Tue, 20 Jun 2006 17:04:30 +0000

You’ll never land a lady if all you do is watch them from the sidelines. You need to get some courage and make the approach. Hanging out and waiting for someone to approach you equals just that: hanging out and waiting.

By: anon

anon — Tue, 20 Jun 2006 17:14:44 +0000

Maybe you got more action in DC because the women in DC are ugly.

By: Madonna

Madonna — Tue, 20 Jun 2006 18:04:32 +0000

Join a good gym. There will be “regulars” there you can talk to (if you grow a pair ) ..as a side-effect you’ll even maybe feel / look better .. I would receommend a yoga class- loaded with girls!! Clubs are the hardest place to meet someone, girls are more guarded there…

By: what?

what? — Tue, 20 Jun 2006 18:32:56 +0000

I never understood the whole, “clubs aren’t the place to meet people.”

Isn’t the main reason we all go there is to meet people?!?

I always say, they wouldn’t be out unless they are looking, right?

By: Ibid

Ibid — Tue, 20 Jun 2006 18:40:45 +0000

What?, it depends on what you’re looking to meet people FOR.
Just for tonight, sure, clubs are great for that.
For something longer, weeeell… that way lie crazy chicks and players.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 20 Jun 2006 18:58:02 +0000

Thanks for advice. Some of it is pretty funny. Estella just lost her grove a little bit and was hoping DCB could lead me back to the promise land. It isn’t like I don’t get any chicks, I just don’t really get the ones I want. I don’t really think I have much game and was hopeful that DCB could give me a little advice on how to “get it together.” It looks like a confindence think because I was just being honest and open.

I see a lot of great looking women and just wanted some advice on how to develop a pair of balls I guess.

The advice is well taken. Thanks for the help

By: Ibid

Ibid — Tue, 20 Jun 2006 19:11:08 +0000

> I see a lot of great looking women and just wanted some advice on how to develop a pair of balls I guess.

OH! Rolled up socks down the pants.

By: Anon

Anon — Tue, 20 Jun 2006 19:28:42 +0000

“Buddy” is such a gay word.

By: a.nort

a.nort — Tue, 20 Jun 2006 20:40:04 +0000

i agree w/ DCB on all points; especially finding yourself a bar to hang out at where you feel comfortable. Talk to people! Yes, people…not just girls. Be on friendly terms with the bartender and the “regulars”…you never know who they might introduce you to!

By: exoticdoll

exoticdoll — Wed, 21 Jun 2006 06:05:38 +0000

Jesus Christ, dude. Do what a lot of men do, find a high end escort and shell out a few hundred for some ass. Not only are you guaranteed some, she’s guaranteed to leave, too. No baggage.

By: Pagan Marbury

Pagan Marbury — Wed, 21 Jun 2006 07:02:12 +0000

To be fair, Cap Lounge and Clarendon Ballroom are the easiest places to get laid this side of Dewey Beach. Maybe your game never fully developed because you never had to use it.