Ferry game
noGame writes,
Hi there guys. Old friend of K’s from a far away island here
my question is more for DCB:
Recently saw this gorgeous girl buying tickets for a ferry with her larger, much less attractive, but VERY talkative friend who struck up a convo with me. Spent the whole ferry ride talking to them..or more accurately: listening to the larger girl chat away while there was a clear connection b/w myself and the hotter one who tried in vain to get some words in edgewise. Anyway circumstances went wrong after the ferry ride and we did not get to meet up again. What is the proper “game” or move to use in such a situation ie. I wanna get to know the hot girl but the not-so-hot is totally grabbing for attention and basically cock-blocking for no good reason (they were not close friends). Is this situation only solved by having a wingman or can a guy get something working in a short period of time? is it possible?
thanks
update received a few days later…
i found the larger, less attractive girl’s email and we’ve been corresponding. she says she’s “working on” getting the other girl’s email..but in the meantime she’s started to ratchet things up by complimenting me etc. I’ve hinted in almost every email to her that I’m looking for the other girls details, so how can i make this work if it’s going to basically be me rejecting her advances?
i know you guys are backed up but i think this is important as it allows for some definitive advice one can act on rather than the other question which was more “academic.”
DCB says,
This is a tough situation because going straight for the hottie might open you up to a vicious cockblock by the beast. What you have to do is send a hint to the hot girl that you are going for her.
Here’s how you do it:
1. Build rapport with both of them. After 15 minutes or so, look at the hot one and say something like, “For some reason you remind me of my ex-girlfriend.” Right away both girls should know what is going on.
2. Talk for a few more minutes to let the statement sink in. Then excuse yourself to use the bathroom, get a napkin, jerk off, whatever. You need to give them some alone time to talk things over. Hopefully the hot girl tells the beast to stand down.
3. Come back and feel it out. If the hot girl likes you, she will do more talking and the beast will sit on the sidelines. If nothing has changed, then there isn’t much you can do.
4. Close. If the hot girl is feeling you, you need to do the close with the beast present. Get digits or suggest meeting later the same evening.
The current situation is already fucked. You will never get the hot girl’s email. I bet you the beast hasn’t even told her that you want the email. Just learn for next time, because it will happen again.
Kathryn says,
DCB’s advice is what was wanted and needed here. I’ll just say:
Hi, N!!!!!!!!!!!
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