Comments on: Wax off http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off "but seriously, when should i call?" Thu, 11 Mar 2010 13:11:28 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.3 By: etcetera http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5500 etcetera Fri, 18 Aug 2006 14:21:09 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5500 i have a good friend who swears by Nair. but i'm not in to it. ask for debbie at Fusion Day Spa. she is *not* shy, so ditch your modesty at the door. i have a good friend who swears by Nair. but i’m not in to it.

ask for debbie at Fusion Day Spa. she is *not* shy, so ditch your modesty at the door.

]]> By: OC http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5501 OC Fri, 18 Aug 2006 15:08:29 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5501 I love the way waxing looks and feels, but it's soo expensive around here. Any ladies have reccommendations for places around town that charge less than the stadard $60-$70 for a brazilian? And here's a tip: take some Advil before you go to the salon. It helps! I love the way waxing looks and feels, but it’s soo expensive around here. Any ladies have reccommendations for places around town that charge less than the stadard $60-$70 for a brazilian? And here’s a tip: take some Advil before you go to the salon. It helps!

]]> By: Charlotte http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5502 Charlotte Fri, 18 Aug 2006 15:10:51 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5502 I LOVE DEBBIE. She is hilarious and awesome. Does every woman in this city go to her? I just found out my hairdresser goes to her. I LOVE DEBBIE. She is hilarious and awesome. Does every woman in this city go to her? I just found out my hairdresser goes to her.

]]> By: Girl Anon http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5503 Girl Anon Fri, 18 Aug 2006 15:14:21 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5503 Regular Girl: If you have never experienced being hair-free (or at least hair-diminished), I strongly suggest you give it a go. Screw what the menfolk thing - I find all of the things that go on downtown to be more pleasurable/manageable in the absense of excess hair. Regular Girl: If you have never experienced being hair-free (or at least hair-diminished), I strongly suggest you give it a go. Screw what the menfolk thing - I find all of the things that go on downtown to be more pleasurable/manageable in the absense of excess hair.

]]> By: Guest Soap http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5504 Guest Soap Fri, 18 Aug 2006 15:44:18 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5504 God I loved that comment... Oh El Guapo. God I loved that comment… Oh El Guapo.

]]> By: Chaco http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5505 Chaco Fri, 18 Aug 2006 15:49:06 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5505 I like a trimmed bush. It does not have to be super small, or even bald. But neat and trimmed. I personally like it when it's trimmed but keeps a 'natural shape' to it. Those really thin strips or those little tuffs look weird. Regular Girl, if you are naturally light down there, it may be fine, but if you are hairy, trim down, you'll make the boys happy. I like a trimmed bush. It does not have to be super small, or even bald. But neat and trimmed. I personally like it when it’s trimmed but keeps a ‘natural shape’ to it. Those really thin strips or those little tuffs look weird. Regular Girl, if you are naturally light down there, it may be fine, but if you are hairy, trim down, you’ll make the boys happy.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5509 Anonymous Fri, 18 Aug 2006 16:39:08 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5509 haha.. great advice today trimmed to bare is my preference haha.. great advice today

trimmed to bare is my preference

]]> By: Ibid http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5510 Ibid Fri, 18 Aug 2006 16:44:59 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5510 Some guys like lots and lots of hair. Like a bearskin bikini hairy. That's a fetish though. Personally, by the time I get to seeing how much hair you have I've already decided whether or not this is happening. It's gonna take a disturbing looking rash to make me turn back, not some hair. HOWEVER! My ex-gf would shave every few months. At first she did it because she thought I'd like it, and I did, but then she did it for her. Why? Because I'll spend a lot more time eating, and over a wider area, if I don't have to pick the hair out of my meal. I prefer to floss after dinner, not during. I hope I'm not beating about the lack of bush too much for you. (puns unavoidable) Once she did it she'd keep it short for awhile and then let it grow out. But she only did this every so often because it pokes and itches and gets ingrown so much as it grows out again. Another ex-gf always kept it shaved. She had kept herself to women only before me and tried to make herself look the way she liked her women to look. Some guys like lots and lots of hair. Like a bearskin bikini hairy. That’s a fetish though.

Personally, by the time I get to seeing how much hair you have I’ve already decided whether or not this is happening. It’s gonna take a disturbing looking rash to make me turn back, not some hair.

HOWEVER! My ex-gf would shave every few months. At first she did it because she thought I’d like it, and I did, but then she did it for her. Why? Because I’ll spend a lot more time eating, and over a wider area, if I don’t have to pick the hair out of my meal. I prefer to floss after dinner, not during. I hope I’m not beating about the lack of bush too much for you. (puns unavoidable)
Once she did it she’d keep it short for awhile and then let it grow out. But she only did this every so often because it pokes and itches and gets ingrown so much as it grows out again.

Another ex-gf always kept it shaved. She had kept herself to women only before me and tried to make herself look the way she liked her women to look.

]]> By: Howie Do http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5512 Howie Do Fri, 18 Aug 2006 16:59:25 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5512 Wow, truly an embarrasment of riches on this one. Check it: everyone needs to do their part, not just the ladies. At the least, there needs to be some trimming going on, and some shaving going on in certain places. When you're done, the shape should resemble a slice of pizza with a bite taken out. But ladies, the most crucial thing is this: please do not have a hairy ass crack. Oy, such a turnoff you don't even know. Wow, truly an embarrasment of riches on this one. Check it: everyone needs to do their part, not just the ladies. At the least, there needs to be some trimming going on, and some shaving going on in certain places. When you’re done, the shape should resemble a slice of pizza with a bite taken out. But ladies, the most crucial thing is this: please do not have a hairy ass crack. Oy, such a turnoff you don’t even know.

]]> By: saturn8isgreat http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5513 saturn8isgreat Fri, 18 Aug 2006 17:03:50 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5513 I'm with Girl Anon on this one. I love the way it feels to be completely bare...everything is heightened in pleasure, so I strongly recommend you give it a try, regular girl. That being said, I'm not going to spend $70 a month of my hard earned money waxing it off. There is a product that you can buy at Walmart for like $1.50 called Magic Shave Powder. It's a depilatory for black men's beards...and whaddya know, it works great on pubes! Lasts longer than shaving and almost no razor bumps during grow-back :) I’m with Girl Anon on this one. I love the way it feels to be completely bare…everything is heightened in pleasure, so I strongly recommend you give it a try, regular girl. That being said, I’m not going to spend $70 a month of my hard earned money waxing it off.

There is a product that you can buy at Walmart for like $1.50 called Magic Shave Powder. It’s a depilatory for black men’s beards…and whaddya know, it works great on pubes! Lasts longer than shaving and almost no razor bumps during grow-back :)

]]> By: The BLS http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5515 The BLS Fri, 18 Aug 2006 17:19:41 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5515 Damn. I have learned SO much today that it's not even funny. Damn. I have learned SO much today that it’s not even funny.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5521 Anonymous Fri, 18 Aug 2006 18:58:06 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5521 A big bush is totally disgusting. I don't care what anyone says. I have never known a guy who likes a big hairy bush down there. Just as I have never met a girl who wants to see big bush on a dude. Trim that shit up. You shouldn't have to push 5 lbs of hair away to find what you are looking for. disgusting. please trim Tampa A big bush is totally disgusting. I don’t care what anyone says. I have never known a guy who likes a big hairy bush down there. Just as I have never met a girl who wants to see big bush on a dude.

Trim that shit up. You shouldn’t have to push 5 lbs of hair away to find what you are looking for.

disgusting.

please trim

Tampa

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5522 Anonymous Fri, 18 Aug 2006 19:11:53 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5522 haha.. I love it how K always pretends she knows absolutely nothing about any of the remotely fun subjects (another example, see: http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/06/crazy-in-head-crazy-in-bed-dcb-answered). However, for the most part she consistently comes up with good advice (save a topic a few days ago) so it's all good. haha.. I love it how K always pretends she knows absolutely nothing about any of the remotely fun subjects (another example, see: http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/06/crazy-in-head-crazy-in-bed-dcb-answered).

However, for the most part she consistently comes up with good advice (save a topic a few days ago) so it’s all good.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5524 Anonymous Fri, 18 Aug 2006 19:13:14 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5524 saturn8isgreat, are you saying black men have pube faces? saturn8isgreat, are you saying black men have pube faces?

]]> By: Kathryn http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5525 Kathryn Fri, 18 Aug 2006 19:21:09 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5525 Ha, I guess I do duck out when I feel inexperienced. In this case, however, the OP asked what men expect from ladies, so I gave her men's opinions. Ha, I guess I do duck out when I feel inexperienced. In this case, however, the OP asked what men expect from ladies, so I gave her men’s opinions.

]]> By: girl http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5555 girl Sat, 19 Aug 2006 00:26:42 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5555 "trim everything above the little man in a canoe REALLY SHORT, and shave/wax every thing below it." I have NO IDEA what this means. Man? In a canoe? Please elucidate with the grown-up words! “trim everything above the little man in a canoe REALLY SHORT, and shave/wax every thing below it.”

I have NO IDEA what this means. Man? In a canoe? Please elucidate with the grown-up words!

]]> By: OdoGGer http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5561 OdoGGer Sat, 19 Aug 2006 00:49:16 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5561 Everyone appreciates a well-kept lawn, nobody wants to get lost in a jungle and nobody wants pavement for a yard. This goes for guys and girls. There's no need to scorch the earth kna'mean? Everyone appreciates a well-kept lawn, nobody wants to get lost in a jungle and nobody wants pavement for a yard. This goes for guys and girls. There’s no need to scorch the earth kna’mean?

]]> By: Phil http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5565 Phil Sat, 19 Aug 2006 01:26:21 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5565 Girl - he means keep the labia and vulva areas shaved (wherein is housed the clitoris). Girl - he means keep the labia and vulva areas shaved (wherein is housed the clitoris).

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5651 Anonymous Sat, 19 Aug 2006 18:19:41 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5651 Speaking as a girl who mostly likes girls - shaved. Please, please, shaved. It's more fun for you (heightened sensitivity), more fun for me (no, er, whiskerburn means I spend more time down there), which means more fun for you (see earlier comment about spending more time down there.) And this one goes out to guys and gals: hairy ass = instant turn-off. Speaking as a girl who mostly likes girls - shaved. Please, please, shaved. It’s more fun for you (heightened sensitivity), more fun for me (no, er, whiskerburn means I spend more time down there), which means more fun for you (see earlier comment about spending more time down there.) And this one goes out to guys and gals: hairy ass = instant turn-off.

]]> By: Pagan Marbury http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5675 Pagan Marbury Sun, 20 Aug 2006 01:53:05 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5675 First of all, grooming choices are certainly no indication that a girl might be a slut. That was rude, Mike, and slightly paranoid. Second, and most important, there is hair there for a reason. For those of us who are super sensitive (I know, I'm really lucky, I can get off just by crossing my legs), there needs to be a little barrier there. The one time I took everything off I couldn't have sex- hell, I couldn't even wear jeans- for a week. I always leave a well-tended landing strip. But nothing in the back, of course. The man in the boat is a euphemism for the clit. I first heard it at one of those sex toy tupperware parties where they try to keep things clinical but still sell you vibrators and "warming creams". Ugh. First of all, grooming choices are certainly no indication that a girl might be a slut. That was rude, Mike, and slightly paranoid.

Second, and most important, there is hair there for a reason. For those of us who are super sensitive (I know, I’m really lucky, I can get off just by crossing my legs), there needs to be a little barrier there. The one time I took everything off I couldn’t have sex- hell, I couldn’t even wear jeans- for a week. I always leave a well-tended landing strip. But nothing in the back, of course.

The man in the boat is a euphemism for the clit. I first heard it at one of those sex toy tupperware parties where they try to keep things clinical but still sell you vibrators and “warming creams”. Ugh.

]]> By: Tatlerina http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5677 Tatlerina Sun, 20 Aug 2006 02:28:28 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5677 Umm,first of all...I never, EVER, thought anybody would shave the hair off the labia. EVER. I mean, isn' that skin just way too delicate to put a razor to? Personally, no guy has ever said anything about my hair situation down-there which is typically neat and trim with bikini lines shaved. And for those of us girls with darker hair, shaving ain't all that great cos you can still see the hair root and it feels prickly within a matter of days, and it grows back even coarser, so it's really pointless in my opinion. By those Brazilian Surgi-Wax kits at CVS. Super-simple, super-cheap, barely messy, no muslin strips...and you can do it on your own. It will be painful, of course, but not debilitatingly so and it is soooo worth it. I tried it once and only made it half way because my nerve-endings were really getting fired up but i'm going to really attempt to have it all off the next time. I know it'll feel grreat and even better for the guy! Umm,first of all…I never, EVER, thought anybody would shave the hair off the labia. EVER. I mean, isn’ that skin just way too delicate to put a razor to?

Personally, no guy has ever said anything about my hair situation down-there which is typically neat and trim with bikini lines shaved.

And for those of us girls with darker hair, shaving ain’t all that great cos you can still see the hair root and it feels prickly within a matter of days, and it grows back even coarser, so it’s really pointless in my opinion.

By those Brazilian Surgi-Wax kits at CVS. Super-simple, super-cheap, barely messy, no muslin strips…and you can do it on your own. It will be painful, of course, but not debilitatingly so and it is soooo worth it. I tried it once and only made it half way because my nerve-endings were really getting fired up but i’m going to really attempt to have it all off the next time. I know it’ll feel grreat and even better for the guy!

]]> By: serialdater http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5737 serialdater Mon, 21 Aug 2006 00:34:43 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5737 what do you ladies do to MAINTAIN the shape once you've gotten the initial wax? i may try the magic shave. any other suggestions? what do you ladies do to MAINTAIN the shape once you’ve gotten the initial wax? i may try the magic shave. any other suggestions?

]]> By: First Date DC » Counterpoint http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5776 First Date DC » Counterpoint Mon, 21 Aug 2006 13:41:31 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5776 [...] Counterpoint Over the weekend, dmt wrote, Your question about the acceptable level of female hair, and a recent personal experience has made me [...] […]

Counterpoint

Over the weekend, dmt wrote, Your question about the acceptable level of female hair, and a recent personal experience has made me […]

]]> By: Anon http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5779 Anon Mon, 21 Aug 2006 14:07:46 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5779 I second the Magic Shave Powder. You can actually buy it in cream form, look for it at CVS in the shaving products aisle. Nair is way too rough for my sensitive skin but the Magic Shave works like a charm, and is cheaper too. I second the Magic Shave Powder. You can actually buy it in cream form, look for it at CVS in the shaving products aisle. Nair is way too rough for my sensitive skin but the Magic Shave works like a charm, and is cheaper too.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5802 Anonymous Mon, 21 Aug 2006 21:47:53 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5802 Speaking as another girl who mostly likes girls-- I agree with what she said. Shaving really makes everything more pleasureable and comfortable and is more considerate to your partner. I don't think waxing is necessary; shaving is simple, and I've never had any complaints about being prickly. Speaking as another girl who mostly likes girls– I agree with what she said. Shaving really makes everything more pleasureable and comfortable and is more considerate to your partner. I don’t think waxing is necessary; shaving is simple, and I’ve never had any complaints about being prickly.

]]> By: MPL’s Blog » Blog Archive » Beards - They’re Coming Back! http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5804 MPL’s Blog » Blog Archive » Beards - They’re Coming Back! Tue, 22 Aug 2006 00:00:23 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-5804 [...] Beards - They’re Coming Back! To celebrate a post i made on the blog FirstDateDC which was highlighted on Wonkette, i wanted to focus briefly in the other direction: male& [...] […] Beards - They’re Coming Back! To celebrate a post i made on the blog FirstDateDC which was highlighted on Wonkette, i wanted to focus briefly in the other direction: male& […]

]]> By: Teri http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-10093 Teri Sat, 28 Oct 2006 17:54:42 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-10093 OMG I'm rollling on the floor over here at how comprehensively the guys answered you on this. Awesome - just THE GUYS best be taking care of themselves like decent, well-groomed manly guys....I don't men excessive metro-homosexual-intense-boy-grooming.....We don't like ferocious bush either OMG I’m rollling on the floor over here at how comprehensively the guys answered you on this.

Awesome - just THE GUYS best be taking care of themselves like decent, well-groomed manly guys….I don’t men excessive metro-homosexual-intense-boy-grooming…..We don’t like ferocious bush either

]]> By: barely there http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-10659 barely there Tue, 14 Nov 2006 04:08:05 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-10659 Once I got my first brazilian, I never looked back. (I leave a small upside down triangle of hair at the top of the "canoe" lol, I LOVE THAT! Anything else makes me feel sweaty, itchy and downright dirty. It's great to have a smooth like a baby butt crack! I recommend every woman try this at least once...I live in SOCAL and can get one for $45 www.braziliaskincare.com. It is worth every penny, every uncomfortably painful rip of the hair and some strange woman analyzing your private parts with glaringly white light. Sex is better if you ever make it to the sex...my ex rarely came up for air...plus you feel incredibly hot walking around in regular clothes. I once got one in FL by some brazilian lady and IT LASTED 6 WEEKS...I wanted to fly back out there and give her a kiss. Once I got my first brazilian, I never looked back. (I leave a small upside down triangle of hair at the top of the “canoe” lol, I LOVE THAT! Anything else makes me feel sweaty, itchy and downright dirty. It’s great to have a smooth like a baby butt crack! I recommend every woman try this at least once…I live in SOCAL and can get one for $45 www.braziliaskincare.com. It is worth every penny, every uncomfortably painful rip of the hair and some strange woman analyzing your private parts with glaringly white light. Sex is better if you ever make it to the sex…my ex rarely came up for air…plus you feel incredibly hot walking around in regular clothes. I once got one in FL by some brazilian lady and IT LASTED 6 WEEKS…I wanted to fly back out there and give her a kiss.

]]> By: Prozac. http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-234534 Prozac. Thu, 13 Nov 2008 19:43:52 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/08/wax-off#comment-234534 <strong>Prozac....</strong> Prozac. Order prozac. Prozac withdrawal.... Prozac….

Prozac. Order prozac. Prozac withdrawal….

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