Sneaking peeks
sue writes,
Ok. I have been dating a guy for two yrs. He likes to check out other women when we are out. I know this, and it makes me feel uncomfortable because it is just like he is on another planet when when go out. Too much too look at!!! He of course denies it. The other thing he does is always walks behind me, not along side me when we’re out, and I told him i think it is because he wants to be freer to look at other women. He thinks I am nuts, but I don’t know if I am over-reacting or not. It just hurts my feelings. Any advice?
DCB says,
The problem here is not his wandering eyes, since it’s a normal pastime for men to check out other women. The problem here is your taste in men. It is very very hard to get caught checking out other women; I’m a huge pig but have never once been caught. If you are dating a man that you catch looking at women, that means he is a huge idiot that deserves to be removed from the dating pool. Why would you want to keep a man like that in business?
Kathryn says,
There is a big difference between “checking out” and completely ogling, disgustingly fawning over, or eyejamming. If your boyfriend is just occasionally looking at other women, I wouldn’t sweat it. He’s male, and he knows not what his eyes may do. It happens.
But if he’s constantly staring at other women, ignoring you, AND never walking with you in public (as in, pretending you guys aren’t together), you have major problems. That almost sounds like he doesn’t want to be in the relationship. Or to publicly acknowledge that he’s with you. And that’s miserable.
Bottom line: anyone who tells you your feelings are insignificant and that you’re nuts probably doesn’t care much about you. For those words to come from a boyfriend of two years… well, that’s shitty. Dump him.
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