Comments on: Overanalysis paralysis http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2 "but seriously, when should i call?" Thu, 09 Sep 2010 15:31:08 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.3 By: Ibid http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10212 Ibid Tue, 31 Oct 2006 14:58:02 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10212 I was willing to say that I didn't see any problem until he added the picture to his profile. Did you both define the relationship as exclusive? If so he's looking for something better. I can see how he might thing that after dating for only a month and then going long distance it might not be clear to him that you thought it was exclusive. You're young. Go find someone closer. I was willing to say that I didn’t see any problem until he added the picture to his profile.

Did you both define the relationship as exclusive? If so he’s looking for something better.
I can see how he might thing that after dating for only a month and then going long distance it might not be clear to him that you thought it was exclusive.

You’re young. Go find someone closer.

]]> By: Lion http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10213 Lion Tue, 31 Oct 2006 15:21:37 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10213 You have an arrangement not a relationship. One day the bill could become a law, but we all know that conjunction-function. You have an arrangement not a relationship.

One day the bill could become a law, but we all know that conjunction-function.

]]> By: Skyshocker http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10214 Skyshocker Tue, 31 Oct 2006 16:21:11 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10214 Who really knows what he's thinking, I'm like Ibid in that the pic added a new dimension to the issue. Regardless, he's distanced himself due to your geographical distance, which is understandable, maybe he wants more but is simply protecting himself? Perhaps he's a player and you but a passing distraction? The only way to know or at least gain some clarity is to ask him. Ask him, don't press him as you have an informal relationship. All the best! Who really knows what he’s thinking, I’m like Ibid in that the pic added a new dimension to the issue. Regardless, he’s distanced himself due to your geographical distance, which is understandable, maybe he wants more but is simply protecting himself? Perhaps he’s a player and you but a passing distraction? The only way to know or at least gain some clarity is to ask him.

Ask him, don’t press him as you have an informal relationship.

All the best!

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10215 Anonymous Tue, 31 Oct 2006 16:21:52 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10215 K&D: Good advice, both of you. K&D: Good advice, both of you.

]]> By: underneath the pines http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10217 underneath the pines Tue, 31 Oct 2006 17:55:47 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10217 Update everyone (since I sent this question in well over a month ago): he's since taken down his profile and we've agreed that we are in an exlcusive relationship. Both of these things were not at my insistance, mind you. Due to a situation involving me and him (that would have evolved into my family taking legal action against him), I had broken up with him in late September. But, we've since worked things out and are doing surprisingly well. The distance is a bit of a strain at times, but we're dealing with it. It helps that we've both got busy schedules. Ever the resourceful gal, I've always got my backups in case things go wrong with him ;-) Update everyone (since I sent this question in well over a month ago): he’s since taken down his profile and we’ve agreed that we are in an exlcusive relationship. Both of these things were not at my insistance, mind you. Due to a situation involving me and him (that would have evolved into my family taking legal action against him), I had broken up with him in late September. But, we’ve since worked things out and are doing surprisingly well. The distance is a bit of a strain at times, but we’re dealing with it. It helps that we’ve both got busy schedules. Ever the resourceful gal, I’ve always got my backups in case things go wrong with him ;-)

]]> By: FDDC http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10218 FDDC Tue, 31 Oct 2006 17:59:15 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10218 Good to hear, and sorry about the delay. We get pretty backed up with questions sometimes. Thanks for letting us know what happened. -Kathryn Good to hear, and sorry about the delay. We get pretty backed up with questions sometimes. Thanks for letting us know what happened.

-Kathryn

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10219 Anonymous Tue, 31 Oct 2006 18:29:38 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10219 Legal action? What? Legal action? What?

]]> By: backup http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10222 backup Tue, 31 Oct 2006 18:42:56 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10222 backups, yeah? realize the guy might have his own backups, too... backups, yeah? realize the guy might have his own backups, too…

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10223 Anonymous Tue, 31 Oct 2006 18:45:04 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10223 What legal problems with your family against him? Something sounds really off here. I bet you are crazy What legal problems with your family against him? Something sounds really off here. I bet you are crazy

]]> By: underneath the pines http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10224 underneath the pines Tue, 31 Oct 2006 18:59:36 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10224 Thats a risk I'm willing to take. I wish it didnt have to be this way though. Thats a risk I’m willing to take. I wish it didnt have to be this way though.

]]> By: underneath the pines http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10225 underneath the pines Tue, 31 Oct 2006 19:34:16 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10225 But now that I think about things, I kinda want to break up with him. He's probably seeing someone else anyway. But now that I think about things, I kinda want to break up with him. He’s probably seeing someone else anyway.

]]> By: rock creek rambler http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10227 rock creek rambler Tue, 31 Oct 2006 19:43:30 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10227 I'm sorry, did you say "legal action." Care to elaborate? I’m sorry, did you say “legal action.” Care to elaborate?

]]> By: DC Rookie http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10228 DC Rookie Tue, 31 Oct 2006 19:56:41 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10228 "Due to a situation involving me and him (that would have evolved into my family taking legal action against him), I had broken up with him in late September." Um, what? “Due to a situation involving me and him (that would have evolved into my family taking legal action against him), I had broken up with him in late September.”

Um, what?

]]> By: Single Senator http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10229 Single Senator Tue, 31 Oct 2006 20:32:47 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10229 There's only one kind of advice to give... and it should be directed to him. He needs to dump YOU. I mean talk about misplaced priorities. Your family is about to sue him and you're worried about some stupid online picture? Are you kidding me? People add and subtract pics from their profiles all the time. Why should that cause you to flip out? I guess that answer is pretty simple too... You're "typical psycho chick." There’s only one kind of advice to give… and it should be directed to him. He needs to dump YOU.

I mean talk about misplaced priorities. Your family is about to sue him and you’re worried about some stupid online picture? Are you kidding me? People add and subtract pics from their profiles all the time. Why should that cause you to flip out? I guess that answer is pretty simple too… You’re “typical psycho chick.”

]]> By: Sex & Moxie http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10230 Sex & Moxie Tue, 31 Oct 2006 21:12:57 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10230 Ever the resourceful gal, I’ve always got my backups in case things go wrong with him Okay, wait. So, you had some sort of legal close call with him that would have led to your family suing him? Is that correct? And...you're still seeing him? No offense, but you're already thinking as if you're about to be dumped by having your back ups. Neither one fo you sound to be ready for a relationship. Moxie www.MoxieintheCity.net Ever the resourceful gal, I’ve always got my backups in case things go wrong with him

Okay, wait. So, you had some sort of legal close call with him that would have led to your family suing him? Is that correct? And…you’re still seeing him? No offense, but you’re already thinking as if you’re about to be dumped by having your back ups. Neither one fo you sound to be ready for a relationship.

Moxie
www.MoxieintheCity.net

]]> By: underneath the pines http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10231 underneath the pines Tue, 31 Oct 2006 21:14:22 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10231 No, no, the legal situation occured much, much later (as in almost a month after I originally emailed DCB/Kathryn) Single Senator. As to your comment about me being a "typical psycho chick"...say whatever the hell you want. I know guys like to use that as a little jab to us women, with the intention of making us feel insecure and emotionally out of control. But save your dribble for someone else; I ain't that kind of girl. I'd rather not go into specifics online as to the legal situation, everyone. I'm sure you can understand. Anyways, lets not beat a dead horse y'all. Thanks for your comments and have a pleasant evening! No, no, the legal situation occured much, much later (as in almost a month after I originally emailed DCB/Kathryn) Single Senator. As to your comment about me being a “typical psycho chick”…say whatever the hell you want. I know guys like to use that as a little jab to us women, with the intention of making us feel insecure and emotionally out of control. But save your dribble for someone else; I ain’t that kind of girl.

I’d rather not go into specifics online as to the legal situation, everyone. I’m sure you can understand. Anyways, lets not beat a dead horse y’all. Thanks for your comments and have a pleasant evening!

]]> By: Skyshocker http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10232 Skyshocker Tue, 31 Oct 2006 21:23:47 +0000 http://www.firstdatedc.com/2006/10/overanalysis-paralysis-2#comment-10232 My suspicion is a pfa... Run, run fast, and run far. My suspicion is a pfa…

Run, run fast, and run far.

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