Second chance
Hoping for a third date… writes,
So I met this guy about a year ago and we had a nice, but not memorable date. No sparks, so we both went our separate ways and we recently reconnected. After a few fun emails, we recently met up, had a GREAT real date that led to some hot and heavy fun afterwards (fueled by too much alcohol!). The next day, the guy called and we made plans to hang out on a work night. Needless to say, without all the alcohol the next date and the hook-up afterward weren’t quite as “va-voom.” I ended up feeling nervous and I wasn’t really myself.
So my dilemma: I want another chance! I think we reconnected because we are attracted to each other and I would love to get to know the guy better with at least one more date. He is a bit older(early 30s) and I am worried that he has written me off too quickly. I haven’t heard from him since our date (Sunday), so when can I get in touch? More importantly, do you have any advice on how best to score one more chance? There are all of these more low-key date activities I would love to do this weekend if only I am not written off for good!
Timely advice would be greatly appreciated!:)
Kathryn says,
I have a feeling this wasn’t as timely as it should have been, so I apologize. However, I plan to answer as if it is timely, so there.
If you want another chance, ASK for it. Invite him to do one of those low-key date activities over email or call him on the phone. If you hadn’t heard from him since a Sunday, I’d say you could get in touch on a Wednesday or Thursday without seeming eager. Otherwise, you’ll just end up wondering about it. And writing in to dating websites.
Roosh says,
If you haven’t heard from him since the date, it really doesn’t matter if YOU want to see him again because he obviously does not. I’m guessing he thinks you are frigid and cold without alcohol, like you yourself admit. Instead of focusing on this guy, how about you solve the root problem for when the next dream stud rolls around. My suggestion: have a couple of shots before every date.
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